Cold Spaghetti

This is how Paul told it to me, over the phone while I drove back from class:

Paul: “Do you want the good news or the bad news?”

Me: “Bad news first.”

Paul: “The bleeding stopped.”

Me: (after swallowing my heart back into my chest) “WHAT?!”

Paul: “It’s okay. The good news is that it was me, not Will.”

This is what happened: Paul was being his usual super-dad self and playing with Will: zerbers, laughter, belly tickles, etc. In the excitement, a squealing-with-delight Will stuck his finger up Paul’s nose…. HARD. Hard and deep enough to rupture something, causing a sudden and quite severe nose bleed!! Paul said he felt awful having to run to the sink and wait for the bleeding to somewhat subside (poor Will had no idea why Daddy had to run away so fast and was alarmed). Finale to the story is that they both are fine, with the exception of Daddy producing some interesting kleenex for the rest of the night. (Personally, I am a bit worried about Paul and want to keep an eye on this to make sure it heals okay!)

Maybe parenting is a hazard to your health after all!

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Will enjoying his toes!

Will’s vocabulary, from most used (and articulate) to least:

1. Ma-ma (sometimes said non-stop for several minutes)

2. Uh-oh (also used in sequence over long periods of time)

3. Hi!

4. Da-da

5. Gato (“Ga-doh”) — as in “cat” in spanish.

6. Ah-ah-ah! (like the Count on Sesame Street)

7. Agua (“Ah-ga”) — as in “water” in spanish

8. Thank you (“ank u”) — this one is a stretch, but it’s there

Other fun sounds:

– zerbers

– raspberries

– hah-heh-heh (like heavy breathing, with him mouth wide open — he does this when he gets really happy)

– La-la-la (copying us when we sing – particularly when we sing “William’s Song”, which has many “la” sounds)

Story as told by Granna (Mom handed off Will at 7:30am after 2 hours of wrestling with a squirmy Will and went back to bed.)

Sesame Street came on the television this morning at breakfast. During the opening song of the show (“Sunny days…”) the Count comes past the screen and says “ah-ah-ah!” As if on queue, Will pops out his binky and parrots back, “ah-ah-ah!”

So precious that I almost wish I had been awake for it.

We may have an entry for America’s Funniest Home Videos.

Paul and Will making silly faces to each other back and forth. Specifically, Paul placing his finger sideways in front of his lips and making his finger go up and down while making a humming sound… we’ve all done it, yet I have no idea what it is called. Paul does this to Will, Will tries to do it back. Paul reaches out his hand to Will’s lips, and Will provides the sound as Paul provides the finger movement. And they go back and forth like this for several minutes. So very hard to explain in writing, yet so very easy to explain by demonstrating!! Anyway, it’s hysterical. Thank goodness for the joy of being able to capture these moments on video!

Will celebrated his first birthday again with Granna and PapPap Scheib (and Paul and I) last night here in Mobile. Will was showered in gifts and is enjoying his “incredi-block” — a big cube that plays music and allows for a thousand ways to play with ‘peek-a-blocks’ — he fires up the music and uses the block as support to dance, dance, dance! Other gifts included large wooden puzzle shapes (Will likes to crawl around with the “circle”), a frog puppet that will “ribbet” out Old MacDonald and three other songs (WAY cool) and a little tool chest.

He is having a blast here and is still amazing us with his lasting power in the spa tub. This baby is swimming before he is walking!

This year, we gave thanks in Granna and PapPap’s home in Mobile in the traditional way: stuffing, potatoes, Randy’s famous mushroom gravy, and lots of veggies.

It may have looked like a Thanksgiving Day celebration, but for Will’s parents, this day will always be celebrated as:

Will’s First Poop Day!

Last year, on Thanksgiving Day, Will (a mere 6 days old) had the bowel movement we (and most of the pediatric staff in the UM Mott hospital) were waiting 2 days for! The bowel movement let us know that Will was safely working the excess bilirubin out of his bloodstream and was safe to go HOME*. It was a relief for us, being in the hospital seriously sucked. So, we decided that the day held extra special meaning in our lives as Will’s First Poop Day! The day we REALLY got to start being a family! So, this is our special holiday.

Happy Will’s First Poop Day!

*The basic technical details: Will was jaundice after birth, a very common problem shared by the majority of newborns. His was aggravated both by his having a poor latch (a breastfeeding issue) that meant he wasn’t getting a whole lot to eat just yet. Another issue was that the two of us had different RH blood factors. I am RH negative (my blood type is AB-, which means my blood does not have that particular protein). Paul’s blood is RH positive. Which means that Will and I had a blood incompatibility issue: I had injections during pregnancy to keep my body from developing antibodies and all was fine on that end. However, after birth, it was up to Will’s little liver to process all the blood in his tiny body — a big task! The build up of the excess bilirubin is what caused the jaundice. His output (poop) was our signal that his body was working to process everything normally.

This was too special and fun to not have archived here. An email from Raja and Chiya Sahota, dear friends of ours in New Delhi, India:

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Will pointing out all the fun things to see…

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Hanging out in the Zoo…