Final Pictures from Lima

The Saturday before we left, we joined Jim and Sylvia Rudolph for lunch in their beautiful home in Chorrillos, a district in the southern cone of Lima. It was a wonderful lunch of grilled fish, vegetables, and a delicious fresh citrus juice made with a fruit that I cannot remember or identify in the market. Will had a great time playing with Jim and especially Sylvia, who brought out a variety of fun toys (like the bouncey ball above) and swimming in their wading pool!

Will tumbles around Jim and Sylvia’s yard.

A view of the back porch and house. Huge windows surround their living area looking out to the lush yard and flowers.

Paul juggles with whatever he can find. We are visiting Jude and Adam (Josefina’s family before working for us) at their friends’ home in Barranco. After lunching and spending the afternoon in Chorrillos with Jim and Sylvia, we stopped off here for sushi dinner and socializing. Will was so tired that he slept for over an hour after we arrived!

Will LOVES the bathtub. He got into the habit of ripping off his clothes the moment the sun started to suggest dusk and/or immediately after dinner each night, anticipating that there might be a bath. The plentiful bathtoys helped fuel his excitement! Now that we are back in NOLA, the little man is again without the joy of baths!

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And now… it’s finally in print!

Midwifery, Volume 22, Issue 1, March 2006, Pages 78-87.

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Double Yolk Day!

I knew things were on the mend when Paul announced that one of the eggs he used to make our egg-n-cheese bagel this morning came out with a double yolk. My Grandmothers held the mysterious double yolk as an incredible sign of good luck and I am not one to doubt it.

– We called the car rental agency and they offered to exchange the car and upgrade us for free. But it turns out we don’t need to do this, because…

– The dealership called. Everything is under warranty. We did nothing wrong; it’s a design flaw. Extra points: because the dealership was confident in us as car owners based on our previous history, they pre-ordered the parts and are doing the work today. The car will be ready tomorrow.

– SAIC has a private investigator, in addition to the government secret service investigation, working on our identity theft case. No knew news on the situation with the suspect, but it sounds like they’ve got their man. They’ve signed us up and have offered to pay indefinitely for a fraud detection service for our accounts. Hooray!

– Our department administrator offered to personally oversea my tuition waiver from the summer, check the numbers, and get back to me with it all when it is figured out so I don’t have to continue to go crazy chasing the random incorrect bills.

– Paul left a message for Will’s old daycare (University Montessori) and we are hopeful for good news (ie: they will take him again!) later this afternoon.

– I made egg salad for lunch (after making a great rice and fresh vegetable bake last night) and Paul is running to Whole Foods for fresh bread. He simply walked out the door in his slippers… one of the coolest things about living here that we will truly miss!

– I feel better today, although I am still alternating hot and cold, carrying a cough, and sounding horse. But it is getting better.

– No word on the FSA situation, but Paul did send through another ‘ping’ this morning.

– Will and I went over to the neighborhood Steinmart this morning and I successfully found two bras to fit my current new cup size. (This never happens — bra shopping is usually awful!) I went up a chest and cup size with Will, and now another cup size with this pregnancy. Watch out world… it’s a DD.

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Update

Location: Paul picked us all up yesterday and brought us home to NOLA… including cats, Will, Paul’s computer, and as much luggage as you can cram in a PT cruiser (we call it the Pay-Tay).

Me: Still sick, but seem to be getting better or at least not getting worse. The sad fact that pregnant women take three times longer to beat viruses truly sucks.

Our car: No update, yet. We should hear something today about the rain test simulation.

ID theft: There is a suspect, a disgruntled ex-SAIC employee with ties to HR. Because of the nature of the work SAIC does and the type of data compromised, the guy is being hunted for espionage. So things are looking good on that front.

Fun surprises: A huge pile of Christmas, birthday, Valentines and other fun surprises awaited us at home. Including a Halloween book sent by Aunt Deb and Uncle Gary for Will back in October! (Finally, the post system seems to be getting to a bit of the backlog!)

Sad things: NOLA looks bad. I’m beginning to question the decision to have Mardi Gras — for two reasons. One is that the 3+ million to put it on seems silly when the city is in such shambles and I question whether the city will really see the revenue that the party usually pulls in. The second, and more pressing, is that I think it gives the wrong idea. The situation here is so dire, so severe, and so forgotten that I think putting on a party gives the impression that we’re past the worst and on to better, which is quite far from the truth.

All else: Will wait until after the holiday.

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When it rains…

Paul, driving the smoky (ugh) PT cruiser rented for us by VW, arrived in NOLA around 10:30 last night.

And found that we’ve been victims of identity theft. Apparently, there was some sort of mess up in his company (SAIC) that compromised several employees out of the DC office. Guess who was among them??? So, someone managed to get Paul’s information — and although both his first and last names are spelled incorrectly — acquired charge cards and went to town at a Target in North Carolina to a tune in the four digits.

To sum up:
– I’m still sick, sick, sick.
– We’re victims of identity theft (compliments of SAIC).
– We’re still being denied access to our FSA dollars (again, compliments of SAIC).
– Our car is dead. Warranty, although assumed, has not been verified.
– We’ve got a rental car, under assumed warranty, that smells like a damn ashtray.
– Tulane *still* hasn’t correctly processed my tuition waiver from last summer.
– Regionsbank (our mortgage holder) screwed up our early mortgage payment (again) which means we have to bug them about fixing it, removing the late fees, and re-issuing our tax forms from last year.

The good news:
– My parents are healthy and wonderful. They have both risen to the occassion and are helping us out immensely with Will and however else they can (use of vehicles, etc.)
– Paul is somehow still sane. And he managed to salvage his work and our quicken files from the dead hard-drive and will be able to get back to normal work soon.
– We have a wonderful contact at Regions and feel confident we can fix that problem without too much headache.
– Our house in NOLA was watched carefully by attentive neighbors and kept with loving care by friends Alex, Carol, and Leigh Anne, to whom we are very thankful.

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It rolls downhill and sometimes you’re at the bottom of the mountain

We miss Lima.

The trip back was fine. Will continues to live up to his reputation as World Most Incredible Kid, dealing with both flights, bag searches, plane changes, excessive security checks and more with patience and good humor (two things rarely displayed in your average 2-year old.)

The shit started to roll soon after we arrived in Mobile. I’ll just make a list of the crap on our heads.

I am sick. I think Will picked up a little bug during our final days in Lima (he and I woke with sore throats on Wednesday morning) and while Will bounced back, I have been riding a downward spiral ever since. We made it to the midwife prenatal yesterday (went great; my weight gain is still fabulous at 19.5 pounds at the end of my 28th week and it looks like my iron levels are also remaining impressive) and I crashed shortly after getting back from the appointment. It’s going to be a few days in bed for me.

Within an hour after we arrived, Paul discovered that our the power adapter he needs for my computer (remember, Paul’s died) was missing. Paul talks about this on his blog, so you can get the jist there, but basically, it was there during a bag search in Lima — and it was not there when we unpacked yesterday. This is a Big Deal.

We set our for the prenatal appointment a little early yesterday so Paul could pick up another power adapter (his only option) at Best Buy, getting into our 2002 VW Passat Wagon which had been sitting on my parent’s driveway for the past 6 weeks. My Dad went out and ran the car weekly for about 30 minutes per run and we felt confident the car would be fine. Why wouldn’t we? We impecibly maintain it and all services have been on time and within dealerships. Not more than a half mile down the road, the car goes bonkers. I mean *bonkers*. We assume an electrical problem, realize that we could damage the engine by driving it, turn around and take my parents car. On the way to Pensacola, I call the dealership, who (like us) assumes a low voltage on the battery. We ask my Dad (home early to see Will) to go out and run the car; he tries five times, but the thing is dead. It’s still under warranty, so we call the dealership for a tow. Bottom line: there is something seriously wrong with the car. Apparently, there is some sort of leak that has been letting in rain water (something we have since discovered that is not uncommon in VWs) and there is water throughout the floorboards. Thankfully, we’ve been using this dealership since moving from Michigan (easier to have it serviced here where we have my parents to help with transportation since we’re a one-car family) and they serviced the car during our post-Katrina time in Mobile. They know the car didn’t flood and saw it post-storm. So, they put trust in us and put through an early authorization on a rental. We just picked up the rental (a PT cruiser — the last car on the lot — it’s Mardi Gras time in Mobile and rental cars are hard to find) so Paul will be able to get back to NOLA for his work machines and backups this weekend. Our car will get assessed by a flood expert on Monday and we should know more then. We have to believe that this will all be under warranty — how could it not?

So I’m sick, we’re car-less and clueless on the cars’ problem(s), and — just to kick us while we’re down — we’re still in the throws of grappling with Paul’s flexible spending account program over Will’s daycare and it’s gone up a knotch to the point that we’re close to entering small claims court. Paul has also talked about this on his blog, but the bottom line is that pre-Katrina, Will was to start a part-time daycare program run through Tulane in the fall. We enrolled to set aside pre-tax dollar monies in a flexible spending account to pay the tutition. We had about $850 in the account when Katrina hit. The daycare flooded. We un-enrolled because we didn’t know what was going to happen and it was obvious he wasn’t going to go there in the fall because Tulane was closed. The paperwork Paul signed stated that disenrolling meant that we would forefit any funds that weren’t used by the end of the calendar year — we actually double checked this at the time because we wanted to make sure we’d still have the option of using the funds if we could find an alternative, but since we didn’t know the situation, didn’t want to keep putting money in the account. Turns out that we did use daycare dollars for the couple of weeks of part-time care we had in November and December. When we put in for re-imbursement, the company claimed that our disenrolling meant we forefitted everything. And they’ve just come out from “reviewing” the claim to back the previous statement and refuse to look at it again. So, we’re being denied our own money, put inside of an account for our use — which we used, within the specified time limit, for the specified purpose, by a specified provider, and applied for within the specified manner. In other words — the crooks! The HR at Paul’s company seems to be working on this in the sense that they are sending a lot of emails (pardon my sarcasm on this one, but I feel like this should be HR’s problem, not ours) but nothing seems to be happening. Our next step: small claims court.

And so I repeat: we miss Lima.

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Houston, we have a problem…

…was the subject line of the email Paul sent out yesterday morning. At 6am, all was fine. When Paul came back a little later after making breakfast, his computer had died. Not a good thing for a full-time telecommuter. It would take several days to re-create his full development environment on my computer, but he has been able to download enough stuff (taking up most of his work-day on Monday with non-chargeable hours) to be productive today. He thinks that most of what he lost was not work related and will be able to salvage fragments of other things (like our Quicken data) once we’re back in the States. We contemplated trying to change our tickets to get home a day or two sooner, but decided against it due to logistics and cost. It’s changed the dynamics of our going home a bit and means we’ll probably drop decent dough on two machines for Paul before coming back. It also means limited updates on coldspaghetti while my beloved workhorse of a machine plays pinch-hitter. Talk about an “oh shit!” sort of day!

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Pachacutec

I spent a wonderful day on Friday in Pachacutec with Barbara, a nun serving with Medical Mission Sisters. Barbara is an absolute delight; I feel a great kinship with her and adored our day together. I cannot imagine a better attache into the community!

About Pachacutec…. Pachacutec is a very new “pueblo joven” to the north of Lima. It is technically in Callao (the location of the Lima airport, also called the Lima-Callao airport) and rests along the dry coastal land on the edge of the Pacific. The Garcia administration set aside this area as a “special project” in 1988. By 1992, 9,000 lots had been auctioned. Approximately 2,000 additional settlers made informal occupation (called “invasion” around these parts), mostly related to internal migration of refugees affected by the terrucos. Development was slow due to lack of basic services (no water, sewage, or electricity) and distance from major roads.

Then in 2000, Fujimori ordered a relocation of some 7000+ “invading” families from Villa El Salvador (an older, more established pueblo joven in the southern extreme of Lima) to Pachacutec. For the first six months, the government assisted with necessities (food, water, blankets, trash collection, straw mats used as building materials for shelters, etc.) and then NGOs took over in these aids and began to support the formation of community organizations.

Today, 70% community has electricity. There is no water or sewage. Large trash buckets (usually the color blue) sit outside of most houses (or on top of more newly constructed, concrete houses) and are filled up daily by a hose extending from a water truck. No phone lines; I’m not sure if my cell functioned but for some reason I feel confident it probably did. The majority of the buildings are made from straw mats or plywood. About a third have cement floors. Few have latrines; most of the community utilize septic tanks. Several preschools, primary schools and clinics dot the community with others currently in construction.
Churches of several denominations also exist (Catholic and evangelical, from what I understood.) In short, it is a population living in poverty and extreme poverty. It is also one of the most fantastic communities I have visited here in Peru.

Barbara and I road the purple bus to Pachacutec for about an hour from her current home in Callao (about a 30-40 minute ride from our house in Miraflores). We road up the coast, past the oil refineries and manufacturing plants that line industrial Callao’s shore. A highlight of the ride: the young man with painted red nose and oversized, brightly colored pants who hopped on the bus, told jokes, and passed around a bag of chocolates (for a fee) which he claimed “cured diabetes.” He received some genuine laughter from the crowded bus and I was impressed at the level of respect and patronage he got from the passangers. How enterprising! The last few miles of our trip were on unpaved roads, through a small wetland preserve and into the dry, sandy hills that look out to the Pacific.

We had lunch in a comedor popular, a community kitchen, staffed by community members who sell hot lunches at reduced cost to members (mostly children and adolescents). I took the opportunity to talk some with a few residents; although I wish I had done more of this. While people were at first leary of me in appearance (I’m a pregnant gringa) the moment I began to show interest they lit right up to me with friendly faces and words. From there, we went into one of the local sectore markets (one market per sector) complete with a station, equipped with megaphone perched high overhead, for making announcements and playing music. A few steps into the wonderful market, Barbara ran into a friend, Sr. Gonzales, who was the former system announcer! (Word on the street is that he was replaced due to age.) The Sr. was so warm, friendly, and charismatic. We talked about the election (he’s supporting Lourdes — and Crisco, he loves the current Chilean top dog), politics, and the community. Barbara and I agreed that he should run for local political office.

After our market chat, we headed over to one of the clinics, where we ran into several people who run anti-violence training programs in the community (a very lucky situation!) We spent awhile chatting, the staff welcomed my use of the ladies’ room, and we enjoyed a few minutes out of the scorching sun. As with other communities in Lima, respiratory illness is a major, major problem in Pachacutec, as well as skin diseases, chronic diarrheas, and other GI problems. (Given the conditions… sand dunes, lack of water and sewage, high humidity, and poor ventilation — there is not much a health center can do but provide bandaids to ease the symptoms of the diseases of poverty.) Our final stop was to the large MIMDES (Ministry of Women and Social Development) office. We met with Sonya, the community violence prevention coordinator, and her staff. Brilliant folk — including one energetic woman who sold us a few cans of homemade beans before taking off to another meeting. (Funny moment: the beans came up during an interesting conversation segway and I actually thought that she was selling the cans as armas to carry for protection. Big laugh.)

Out of all the communities I’ve visited, this one by far felt the best. I loved the people, loved being there, and honestly cannot wait to return. It was a great day — exhausting and fulfilling!

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Moments with the Monkey and the Wombat

Be sure to check out Paul’s blog for pictures he’s been promising. Including some fun stuff with Will and home improvement, Wombat-style. (Remember that treacherous perch hanging the shutters last spring? This one raised the bar a bit!)

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For inspiration and understanding

In high school we were forced to read Hemingway. I hated it. I thought (and still think) that he is a misogynist, somewhat trite author, and a bit of a bore (although I’ll give him a little redemption for Old Man and the Sea). However, a poem in the forward to one of his books struck me. For years it was plastered to my bedroom wall, showing up in Grandma Betty’s and following me to my college dorm. Somewhere along the way, the paper and the poem disappeared, and honestly, I had not thought about it in years.

I came across it yesterday and immediately copied it in my notebook. Looking back to it, I can’t help but think that these words had somehow sunk into my subconscious, subtly shaping my thoughts and experiences over the years. If someone asks for a reason I am in my chosen field, or the why for where my passions lie, I think that these words sum up the answer better than anything I could muster…

No man is an island,
entire of itself;
everyman is a piece of the Continent,
A part of the Main;
Any man’s death diminishes me,
Because I am involved in Mankind;
and therefore never send to know
for whom the bell tolls;
It tolls for thee.

John Donne, Devotions, XVII

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