Cold Spaghetti

Apparently, for women to do anything in government, from voting, running for office, becoming president… maybe even for going to school or walking on the sidewalk?… there must be a specific clause referring specifically to sex that says it’s legal for them to participate in such action. Or, at least, this yutzball thinks so. I agree with her; it’s pretty hilarious.

A few days ago, I opened a beautiful gift — a handmade necklace from a local artist — wrapped up with style and packed with love from Shokufeh, who decided to pay some kindness forward after being the recipient of a gift from another blogger. It literally made my day. Looking at it reminds me of how simple it really is to bring joy to another person.

Carrying on this kindness, I’m looking for 3 bloggers who are interested in joining in on the PIF… strangers, lurkers, friends-of-friends welcome. Leave a comment or send an email and I’ll figure out who and what in the next week.

When I taught at Michigan, I used to put an overhead of this up on the board as students walked in when I had class on Valentines Day. Sort of sums up my thoughts on the whole Valentines thing*. It had a lot more bite to it in the days before Blood Diamond and was a great launch into discussing the paradigms around relationships.

Share it with someone you love on this Valentines Day. (You can find online copies of it here.)

Ten Reasons Why You Should Never Accept a Diamond Ring from Anyone, Under Any Circumstances, Even If They Really Want to Give You One.

By Liz Stanton, CPE Staff Economist

1. You’ve Been Psychologically Conditioned To Want a Diamond. The diamond engagement ring is a 63-year-old invention of N.W.Ayer advertising agency. The De Beers diamond cartel contracted N.W.Ayer to create a demand for what are, essentially, useless hunks of rock.

2. Diamonds are Priced Well Above Their Value. The De Beers cartel has systematically held diamond prices at levels far greater than their abundance would generate under anything even remotely resembling perfect competition. All diamonds not already under its control are bought by the cartel, and then the De Beers cartel carefully managed world diamond supply in order to keep prices steadily high.

3. Diamonds Have No Resale or Investment Value. Any diamond that you buy or receive will indeed be yours forever: De Beers™ advertising deliberately brain-washed women not to sell; the steady price is a tool to prevent speculation in diamonds; and no dealer will buy a diamond from you. You can only sell it at a diamond purchasing center or a pawn shop where you will receive a tiny fraction of its original “value.”

4. Diamond Miners are Disproportionately Exposed to HIV/AIDS. Many diamond mining camps enforce all-male, no-family rules. Men contract HIV/AIDS from camp sex-workers, while women married to miners have no access to employment, no income outside of their husbands and no bargaining power for negotiating safe sex, and thus are at extremely high risk of contracting HIV.

5. Open-Pit Diamond Mines Pose Environmental Threats. Diamond mines are open pits where salts, heavy minerals, organisms, oil, and chemicals from mining equipment freely leach into ground-water, endangering people in nearby mining camps and villages, as well as downstream plants and animals.

6. Diamond Mine-Owners Violate Indigenous People’s Rights. Diamond mines in Australia, Canada, India and many countries in Africa are situated on lands traditionally associated with indigenous peoples. Many of these communities have been displaced, while others remain, often at great cost to their health, livelihoods and traditional cultures.

7. Slave Laborers Cut and Polish Diamonds. More than one-half of the world’s diamonds are processed in India where many of the cutters and polishers are bonded child laborers. Bonded children work to pay off the debts of their relatives, often unsuccessfully. When they reach adulthood their debt is passed on to their younger siblings or to their own children.

8. Conflict Diamonds Fund Civil Wars in Africa. There is no reliable way to insure that your diamond was not mined or stolen by government or rebel military forces in order to finance civil conflict. Conflict diamonds are traded either for guns or for cash to pay and feed soldiers.

9. Diamond Wars are Fought Using Child Warriors. Many diamond producing governments and rebel forces use children as soldiers, laborers in military camps, and sex slaves. Child soldiers are given drugs to overcome their fear and reluctance to participate in atrocities.

10. Small Arms Trade is Intimately Related to Diamond Smuggling. Illicit diamonds inflame the clandestine trade of small arms. There are 500 million small arms in the world today which are used to kill 500,000 people annually, the vast majority of whom are non-combatants.

References:

* Collier, Paul, “Economic Causes of Civil Conflict and Their Implications for Policy,” World Bank, June 15, 2000.
* Epstein, Edward Jay, “Have You Ever Tried to Sell a Diamond?“, The Atlantic Monthly, February 1982.
* Global Witness, “Conflict Diamonds: Possibilities for the Identification, Certification and Control of Diamonds,” A Briefing Document, June 2000.
* Human Rights Watch/Asia, “The Small Hands of Slavery: Bonded Child Labor In India,” Human Rights Watch Children’s Rights Project.
* Human Rights Watch, “Children’s Rights: Stop the Use of Child Soldiers.”
* Kerlin, Katherine “Diamonds Aren’t Forever: Environmental Degradation and Civil War in the Gem Trade,” E: The Environment Magazine.
* Le Billon, Philippe, “Angola’s Political Economy of War: The Role of Oil and Diamonds, 1975-2000,” African Affairs, (2001), 100, p.55-80
* Mines and Communities, “The Mining Curse: The roles of mining in ‘underdeveloped’ economies,” Minewatch Asia Pacific/Nostromo Briefing Paper, February 1999.
* Other Facets, Number 1, April 2001; Number 2, June 2001; Number 3, October 2001, www.partnershipafricacanada.org/hsdp/of.html [dead link]

*Full disclosure: I do own a diamond that I consider to be one of the most precious things we have. It was Paul’s Grandmother’s engagement ring from the 1920s, set in a completely one-of-a-kind ring that she designed. I like to think that it holds a bit more innocence for it’s age, originality, and family history. But hey, I eat meat, heat my house, take long showers, and own clothes that came from maquilas, so I am in no way innocent. Even still: I have never bought a diamond.

Will (wearing Kate’s cowgirl hat) poses beside his drawing of a mermaid in the ocean (see the waves?) with the sand beneath her (see the tan sand?)

Back at work on a new masterpiece.

Part way through his next creation: Mardi Gras Float. Fuzzy thing to the left is beads. Green person to the extreme right corner is a person watching and catching. Notice that the float has several layers and wheels.

“How do you get underneath a bathtub to put them in?”

“You first build where they are going to go, then you carry then in and put them down.”

“But how do you build the pipes?”

“You get under the house and put in the pipes underneath. Maybe you can crawl under with me and I’ll show you the pipes.”

“I don’t know about that,” his face scrunches up, “there’s a lot of creepy, crawly bugs down there.”

“Mommy, where do mouses come from?”

“Can we get a dog?”

“How do fish breathe?”

“Do trees breathe?”

“Do trees eat?”

“Why does wind move trees?”

“Why does Kate always take off her shoes?”

“Can we pull over so I can poop on the side of the road?”

For helping us parents spread the message to our children that guns are objects of violence, not toys. You are doing a great job of telling us just how seriously you take the issue of violent crime in New Orleans.

Me and my friend, Tammy, are totally reading this book.

“Everybody,” she said, “needs to make it their Life’s Work to teach at least one kid to say, ‘WHEE!’ And mean it!”

Amen to that.

1. Rip apart oreo.
2. Remove inner center.
3. Rub inner center all over nose. Lick what is left off of fingers.