{"id":5759,"date":"2010-01-02T21:56:01","date_gmt":"2010-01-03T04:56:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.coldspaghetti.org\/blog\/?p=5759"},"modified":"2010-01-02T22:17:56","modified_gmt":"2010-01-03T05:17:56","slug":"where-i-vent-on-education-immersion-and-the-experience-of-being-a-parent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.coldspaghetti.org\/blog\/2010\/01\/02\/where-i-vent-on-education-immersion-and-the-experience-of-being-a-parent\/","title":{"rendered":"Where I vent on education, immersion, and the experience of being a parent."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The New Year is upon us, which means the families of New Orleans are gearing up for two seasons: Mardi Gras and School-finding.\u00c2\u00a0 Schools have their application deadlines about now, along with lotteries for selection into charter schools and deposits to hold places in prospective elementary (and in some cases pre-k) schools.\u00c2\u00a0 It&#8217;s a big game in these parts, a system built on payment and privilege from start to finish.\u00c2\u00a0 For many schools, families are required to shell out big bucks (think, $300+ per kid) for an &#8220;evaluation&#8221; of their 3 or 4 or 5 year old child&#8217;s &#8220;intelligence&#8221; in the hopes that if he or she is granted a &#8220;gifted&#8221; distinction that would allow them eligibility.\u00c2\u00a0 For the private schools, it&#8217;s yet-another-hurdle to cross.\u00c2\u00a0 For the public-schools-gone-charter, it&#8217;s a way to keep some screening in place.\u00c2\u00a0 (Plus, schools get extra funding if they provide services to a &#8220;special needs&#8221; population &#8212; meaning that programs to fill the needs of the &#8220;gifted&#8221; 5-year old are abundant in New Orleans.)<\/p>\n<p>As you can tell from my liberal use of quotations, I think the whole system is sick.\u00c2\u00a0 The measure of gifted-ness by our local evaluators are, at best, an assessment of how much time a parent or other caring adult has spent nurturing that particular child&#8217;s creativity and spirit.\u00c2\u00a0 In reality?\u00c2\u00a0 Well, children that go to the paid evaluation service have a much greater likelihood of walking away with an intelligence label than children who go to the school system&#8217;s service.\u00c2\u00a0 We all know it is ridiculous; no one I know actually takes any of these tests seriously.\u00c2\u00a0 It&#8217;s just one more stupid hoop we have to jump through to navigate our families through the murky and dangerous waters of New Orleans education.\u00c2\u00a0 You do it because you have to and then you move on.<\/p>\n<p>One of my largest frustrations is that I have absolutely no idea how I could even begin to advocate for any type of change.\u00c2\u00a0 I do believe that personal is political &#8212; but that doesn&#8217;t mean I&#8217;m simply going to send my kids to the public school down the street.\u00c2\u00a0 How can I advocate for change when I am using every bit of privilege we have &#8212; economic, social, racial &#8212; to see that our own children are given the best opportunities we can provide?<\/p>\n<p>These are my frustrations with our local schools.\u00c2\u00a0 That they are structured, specifically, to enforce class barriers and continue to be successful in their intent.\u00c2\u00a0 It forces me to consider dark and ugly realities of our world and consciously decide where I want to put my children within them.<\/p>\n<p>*****<\/p>\n<p>Even before our kids were born, we knew that early immersion in a second language was our absolute, number one priority for our children.\u00c2\u00a0 One of the reasons we love being in New Orleans is that we are able to give our children that gift of immersion right here&#8230; in immersion schools.\u00c2\u00a0 New Orleans has a number of schools, both private and charter (public) that run language immersion programs.\u00c2\u00a0 Each one runs a bit differently, but the bottom line is this: from pre-school through 5th grade, students are taught in a language other than English for every lesson.<\/p>\n<p>Our children have attended a French immersion school for the past 1 1\/2 school years.\u00c2\u00a0 Our school is private.\u00c2\u00a0 The application did not require intelligence testing or extensive observation, focusing instead on questions designed to assess the family&#8217;s level of commitment to immersion education.\u00c2\u00a0 Other immersion programs run as charter schools through the public school system.\u00c2\u00a0 They have yearly lotteries which take in various demographics of applications to ensure diversity in each class.\u00c2\u00a0 For Paul and I, immersion schools are the programs of choice.\u00c2\u00a0 These are the educational experiences that make life here unique and special.\u00c2\u00a0 We believe it&#8217;s worth living here to take advantage of those opportunities.<\/p>\n<p>There are scientific reasons.\u00c2\u00a0 Language development is time-sensitive in the brain.\u00c2\u00a0 It&#8217;s easier to learn languages at younger ages because of how the brain develops.\u00c2\u00a0 Over time, various doors of opportunity close.\u00c2\u00a0 For example, the ability to acquire the sounds and accents of a native speaker ceases around age 6.\u00c2\u00a0 In short, if you want to give your child the gift of language &#8212; then the earlier you immerse them in it, the better.<\/p>\n<p>Plus, there are other benefits.\u00c2\u00a0 Child education and development literature talk about strides in cognitive development in immersion kids compared to English-only education &#8212; stuff like more flexible thinking and greater ability to handle nonverbal problem-solving.\u00c2\u00a0 Also, there are three decades of solid evidence that immersion kids perform better in both standardized math and language tests administered in English.\u00c2\u00a0 Yes, yes, it&#8217;s true: putting your kid in a school that teaches him all day in a language OTHER than English will, in fact, improve their English more than if they were in a school that spoke English to them all day.<\/p>\n<p>In short, hearing a second language on a regular basis from a live human being is a great thing for kids.<\/p>\n<p>But.\u00c2\u00a0 Being part of an immersion program takes a big leap of faith for an English-speaking parent.\u00c2\u00a0 For one, teachers are not necessarily fully fluent in English.\u00c2\u00a0 This can be a little unsettling for parents, naturally, because communicating with your kid&#8217;s teacher about complex behaviors and assignments and who-knows-what-else is pretty darn important.\u00c2\u00a0 But is it a deal-breaker?<\/p>\n<p>Well, Paul and I speak Spanish.\u00c2\u00a0 We&#8217;ve lived in Latin America over extended time periods (though never longer than 10 weeks) and know what it feels like to work to understand and be understood.\u00c2\u00a0 We&#8217;re not native speakers nor are we fluent &#8212; in short, we&#8217;re not unlike many of our kids teachers.\u00c2\u00a0 Having been in the hot-seat ourselves (so to speak) we do have a good sense of what they feel when they try to talk to us and we know how that the in-ability to find the &#8220;right&#8221; word in English does not mean that they don&#8217;t understand us, the problem, or our child.\u00c2\u00a0 It takes a leap of faith on our part that they are competent in ways that we won&#8217;t necessarily see: in their work, in their nurturing of our kids, in the curriculum.\u00c2\u00a0 Within many aspects of the school-child-teacher interaction, there are cultural and linguistic factors to consider.<\/p>\n<p>That said, last year, it was Will&#8217;s teacher who suggested that Will was having trouble hearing.\u00c2\u00a0 (She was 100% correct.)\u00c2\u00a0 This year, his new teacher continued to help us with Will&#8217;s hearing problems, as well as with his particular learning style.\u00c2\u00a0 When we have had a question or a concern, cultural and linguistic differences did not matter.<\/p>\n<p>For us, we have found it exciting and educational to learn some French.\u00c2\u00a0 Will and Kate participate in French holidays, learns French songs, sees French cartoons, reads classic French tales, and cooks French foods.\u00c2\u00a0 Each and every one of these have been different from the early education experiences had by Paul and me; but we are enjoying each opportunity.\u00c2\u00a0 It is a big leap of faith for parents, because it is so different: school performances aren&#8217;t of Row, Row, Row Your Boat &#8212; but of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=zYNSDEznjqg&amp;feature=related\">Le Petits Poissons<\/a>.\u00c2\u00a0 I admit that I feel some relief when Will spontaneously sings Down By the Bay, or Jingle Bells, because I want him to know these songs, too.<\/p>\n<p>It is both exciting and scary that he is learning things I cannot teach him.\u00c2\u00a0 Even more, he is learning things that I, myself, don&#8217;t know.\u00c2\u00a0 That, I think, is the greatest sacrifice a parent makes within these programs &#8212; you have to trust someone else so much that you are willing to let them teach your child things that you, yourself, don&#8217;t understand.\u00c2\u00a0 It&#8217;s sort of scary to suddenly not have total control and awareness.\u00c2\u00a0 It requires a big leap of faith.<\/p>\n<p>Even with that uncertainty, we love the immersion experience.\u00c2\u00a0 Will&#8217;s enthusiasm for French is inspiring.\u00c2\u00a0 We are impressed at Kate&#8217;s sophistication regarding language, her clear comprehension of the many ways there are the communicate, and how many words exist to describe the same thing.\u00c2\u00a0 It was no small feat to trust in a system completely new to us and we can confidently say that we are thrilled: our children love their school and embrace the culture and language it teaches.\u00c2\u00a0 We enthusiastically recommend immersion education and are grateful to be a part of our school.<\/p>\n<p>*****<\/p>\n<p>But then there is the here and now.\u00c2\u00a0 Rising tuition is forcing the questions of schools, which forces me to the harsh reality that the quality of schooling my kids are getting is not commonplace.\u00c2\u00a0 ALL kids should have access to education that fosters their creativity, imagination, and spirits &#8212; that gives them new skills and confidence.\u00c2\u00a0 And I feel badly that I am better positioned than others to fight for my child&#8217;s right to that experience, and guilty that I am weighing financial considerations into the equation.\u00c2\u00a0 Will we find a more affordable immersion experience?\u00c2\u00a0 Will we be able to afford another year where we are?\u00c2\u00a0 Is there a clear &#8220;right&#8221; choice in there that we are missing?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The New Year is upon us, which means the families of New Orleans are gearing up for two seasons: Mardi Gras and School-finding.\u00c2\u00a0 Schools have their application deadlines about now, along with lotteries for selection into charter schools and deposits to hold places in prospective elementary (and in some cases pre-k) schools.\u00c2\u00a0 It&#8217;s a big [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[100,67,68],"tags":[101],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.coldspaghetti.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5759"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.coldspaghetti.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.coldspaghetti.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.coldspaghetti.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.coldspaghetti.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5759"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"http:\/\/www.coldspaghetti.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5759\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5761,"href":"http:\/\/www.coldspaghetti.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5759\/revisions\/5761"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.coldspaghetti.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5759"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.coldspaghetti.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5759"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.coldspaghetti.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5759"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}